Sunday, May 3, 2009

could it be a birthmark?

May 2, 2009

I know, I know, I missed a day. I'm sorry! It's been a very long weekend.

Daddy called about noon yesterday to tell me he needed me to start a bath running because he was sick. )c: So Jimmy's been sick all weekend and Lil Miss was wide awake and fussy last night, so I just didn't get a chance to post. By the time she went to sleep, I was so exhausted, I just crashed.

So I spent yesterday during the day taking care of Jimmy, Lil Miss and finishing all the unpacking and getting the house all set up. Everything has a place and it's probably as "done" as it's going to be with a baby in the house. (c: Zeus is still investigating (I think he thinks that Lil Miss' room is actually his, though that's not surprising, considering that she doesn't really sleep in there yet) and I think he's decided that this house is acceptable. Jimmy and I love it and Lil Miss, well, she doesn't know what's going on. As long as she's fed and loved, she's happy.

May 3, 2009

So yeah, Mommy didn't sleep much last night. Between Lil Miss waking up to be fed and Jimmy getting up through the night, I don't think I got more than twenty minutes of straight sleep all night. I finally gave up trying to sleep this morning about 9:30 and Lil Miss and I got ready to go to work and then, of course, went to work. Because she was so fussy Friday, I had things I needed to get done before tomorrow morning. But she was pretty good this afternoon and let me get everything done (she mainly watched Mommy work and cuddled with Moo Cow. Yes, she is trying to eat his ear in that picture above).

Lil Miss is a rather talkative baby. I wouldn't call her a fussy baby, because most days she doesn't really cry that much unless I'm not making her bottle quick enough or she's telling me she's wet or pooping, but she does grumble and "talk" a lot. She grumbles in her sleep a good bit -- I think when she's dreaming but, of course, I don't know for sure. It's pretty cute though.

She also does this thing when I'm holding her that I call "petting". Quite often when being held, she'll end up in with one are behind me. And usually, when she's eating or being cuddled, she'll pull that arm to me so her hand is at my lower back and then she'll "pet" me. It's very cute and sweet and, though I'm sure she doesn't do it on purpose, I love it. She also tends to hold my hand or finger when she's eating and, when we're riding home on the bus, she tends to hold my hand the whole way (usually while sleeping -- the bus has a tendency to knock her out cold very quickly).

Sleeping at the office today.

So, do me a favor and look very very close at her forehead -- do you see that "V" right above the bridge of her nose? Because I can't seem to *not* notice it. It's not there all the time -- mainly when she is or has just been being fussy, when she's mad or (I'm assuming on this one) when she's sick.

Mommy has one just like it. Momma said it was how she could tell if I was really sick because it wasn't always visible -- only when I was angry, stressed, or sick. Are birthmarks hereditary? So I know that doesn't make any sense and they can't possibly, but seriously -- that looks just like my birthmark.

When will we know whether or not it's going to stay? Is it possible that there is something in my genes that I could pass on that would make it more likely that she would get a birthmark? I don't want her to have to deal with it all her life, so I'm hoping it doesn't stay -- but when will I know? Momma -- when did you realize mine was going to be permanent? Was it obvious when I was a baby?

3 comments:

  1. I don't know if birthmarks are hereditary. I don't know of others in our family. Is that true, Anne? Grandma Peggy-any in Ray's?

    She definitely has your birthmark. It was one of the first things I noticed when she was born. Like yours, it became more prominent when she was crying those first few days.

    I don't know who told me yours would go away or if I just waited it out. I did look at your 6 month pictures and it is there, and you are happy. I don't remember it in any school pictures. I think I remember it in 2 pictures I can remember when you were 12-14 months old. If it will make you feel better, I'll pull the file of your old pictures and see when it went away. I was just thankful for the "when you were sick" indication when you were in elementary school. Middle school, you learned to control it.

    Hers is much smaller than yours and significantly less prominent. You didn't have to ask. Yours was evident. I wouldn't worry about it. She's fine. You'll probably just have that wonderful, "Yes, she's really sick indicator." Never tell her about it!

    Mom

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  2. Reilly had/has one of these "stork bites" too. It is a smaller v right in between her eyes. Very prominent when she was born. It is still there now, but you only see it when she is fussy and crying, sick, or something along those lines. I think she was around 5-6 months before I really didn't notice it in pictures. Being the mommy, you will notice it first and quicker than anyone else. I have grown to think it is adorable and my little secret of knowing things about her that nobody else does since nobody else notices it. : )M

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  3. How could I ever have forgotten? I have a birthmark. It's on the left side of my neck. Very noticeable. I spent my high school years being teased about a hickey. I guess you and she got them from me. Sorry.

    Mom

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